I am a happy, creative, funny, educated and emotionally and physically fit man - and I'm not at all convinced that using the internet is the best way to meet a match. I guess I'm trying this with extremely low expectations. If a running partner or friend comes out of than that will be a pleasant surprise.I love meeting people - the taxi driver, the desk clerk,etc.But now I am seeking to develop depth and balance in my life. Being in nature is increasingly important for me, and I am increasingly drawn to the spiritual, complementing the rational and the sensual sides of my nature. Rilke wrote that 'A good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude.' You might have a reaction to that.I'm affectionate, a big Cuddlier, and ready to look at each person as an open book.I am looking for a partner who views relationship with God not merely as an aspect of life, but as life itself, and sees God and her Truth as the ultimate source of emotional wholeness,wise decisions, etc. I also want her to long to know and love me, and to want (and to allow) me to know and love her. Another desire is for intellectual companionship, someone who enjoys thoughtful, stimulating discussion. On a lighter note, it's important to be able to laugh together and have fun w/o needing an external focus like an event or trip. More than anything, though, I want a partner ready to devote time and energy to help make the relationship a continuing success: resolving conflict, communicating effectively, respecting each others' individuality, putting each other first, and persevering through the difficult time.